ChistianMingle - Fast-Growing Online Community

ChristianMingle is a popular Christian online dating service, claiming more than 1,000 new members every day. A spokesperson answered questions from Christian Counseling Services.

What is your advice for Christians who are unsure about how to choose an online dating service?

When signing up for an online dating service, get some recommendations from trusted friends, do some of your own online research, and make a budget for yourself, of both time and money, to see just how much you plan to invest in online dating.

But remember – the monthly price for access to thousands of potential matches can cost less than buying an article of clothing!

Most importantly, see if there are any websites available that cater to your specific interests.

Take advantage of the site’s free trial or membership package to get a feel for the site and how it works.

Lastly, don't be afraid to sign up for multiple sites; diversifying your selection could help you meet more people.

Some Christians are nervous about online dating – what would you say to them?

While online dating can seem intimidating at first, it’s a great way to ease back into the dating world in a safe and comfortable way. You’re in complete control of how much information you decide to put out there and can opt not to answer or prolong answering questions until you’re ready.

With an online personals community like ChristianMingle, you’ve self-selected a group of like-minded singles with similar religious background and values. With a lot already in common, you can find out a lot more about the person – their willingness to relocate, degree of religiousness, hobbies, and interests – before even meeting them face-to-face.

If you’re fearful of creating your profile, fill it out with a trustworthy friend or relative by your side, as they’ll be able to tell you honestly what sounds appealing. Feedback is essential to creating a thorough and accurate representation of yourself.

Please tell me a little about ChristianMingle.

ChristianMingle is an online community created specifically for Christian singles looking to meet other Christians, to make new friends or to find a life-long partner who shares similar values, traditions and beliefs.

As the fastest growing online community for Christian singles, ChristianMingle enhances relationship-building within the Christian singles community by utilizing many interactive features, including email, chat rooms, message boards, instant messenger and more.

What are some of the most important words of advice you can offer for Christians seeking a partner online?

Be proactive. Just like a work-out schedule, set aside 20 to 40 minutes a day to answer emails, fix up your profile, and send emails and E-cards. If you think there’s no time, keep in mind that you would dedicate at least 20 to 30 minutes a day to a significant other…so carve out that time now!

What are some of the mistakes that Christians make when searching for a partner online?

There are several mistakes that people make. A common one is selling yourself short in your profile. You don’t have to summarize your life in one cliché sentence. Your “About Me” section should be interest-grabbing and unique to you.

Another mistake is posting old photos or not posting a photo at all. The profile photo should be recent (within a year old) and a nice, clear close-up with a friendly smile.

Lastly, one of the worst mistakes to make is the old adage of judging a book by its cover. Be open-minded and give potential matches the benefit of the doubt. You don’t want to pass over a diamond in the rough!

Is online dating a growing business?

Yes, online dating has been around for more than a decade and it continues to grow. People will always seek love and companionship, and online dating has become a trusted source for finding a mate.

Is the depressed economy having any sort of impact on your business?

We do not see a direct correlation between the recession and our business. We feel however that even during tough times, people are not willing to give up on love. Not to mention, oftentimes the depression or anxiety caused by hard times motivates people to seek companionship. Having a significant other to lean on helps to lessen the blow of economic crisis.

Singles are still likely to subscribe to an online dating service while on a budget because it’s much more economical than spending money on traditional dating activities such as going out to bars and clubs to meet people.

What people will spend on one night out on the town can be more than the cost of a month of access to thousands of romantic possibilities online.

What kinds of developments might we expect in online dating?

The developments are endless - we’re already seeing video integration, user-generated content, expanded profiles, use of mobile applications, and extension of offline events and travel excursions for members, to name just a few.

Thank you very much.

April 22nd, 2009

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